5 Signs You’re the Type of Woman Our Elite Male Clients Want to Meet

Spoiler alert: You don’t need to be a supermodel, a millionaire, or a world traveler to be the kind of woman high-caliber men are actively seeking. But you do need to bring a certain energy, one that says, “I know who I am, and I know what I want.”

 As a matchmaker who works exclusively with singles over 40 who are serious about love, I can tell you that the men I work with aren’t just looking for beauty or surface-level chemistry. They’re looking for connection. Substance. Confidence. And yes, someone they’re proud to stand beside.

I created my complimentary network for women 35 and up for one reason: to help amazing women like you meet relationship-minded men who are emotionally available, successful, and ready to build something real.

So, how do you know if you might be the kind of woman they’re hoping to meet? Keep reading.

1. You Own Who You Are: Flaws, Fabulousness, and All

Confidence is sexy. Period.

You don’t shrink to fit into someone else’s expectations. You’ve lived, you’ve learned, and you know your worth. You’re not waiting for someone to complete you, you’re inviting someone to complement you.

Men who are serious about love notice this energy right away. It’s magnetic. It’s grounding. It’s rare.

Flirty truth bomb: If you’re the kind of woman who walks into a room and doesn’t need to announce her presence because her vibe already does, you’re already winning.

2. You’ve Done the Inner Work (and It Shows)

Let’s be real, dating in your 40s, 50s, 60s, and beyond can bring up a lot. But women who are ready for a healthy relationship have often taken the time to reflect, heal, and grow from past experiences.

You’re not perfect (no one is), but you’re self-aware, open-hearted, and emotionally mature. You’re not afraid of love, you’re just holding out for the right kind.

Elite men feel this. They’re looking for someone who brings peace, not chaos. Depth, not drama.

3. You’re Feminine Without Playing Games

You know how to let a man lead when it feels natural, but you’re also not afraid to speak up, ask for what you need, and hold boundaries. You can be soft and strong at the same time, and that balance is powerful.

You’re not performing femininity; you’re embodying it in a way that’s authentic to you.

Whether you wear stilettos or sneakers, it’s not about the packaging. It’s about the vibe. And yours? It’s irresistible.

4. You Know What You Want, But You’re Still Open

You’re not on a mission to check off boxes. You’re on a mission to meet your ideal match, someone whose values align with yours, who complements your lifestyle, and who sees your heart.

That openness (paired with clarity) is everything.

My male clients are looking for women who are serious about commitment, but not rigid in their “type.” That’s where the magic of matchmaking comes in: introducing you to someone you may not have swiped on… but who might just surprise you in the best way.

5. You’re Ready to Be Chosen, But You’re Also Doing the Choosing

You’re not desperate. You’re not chasing. And you’re definitely not settling.

You know you’re a catch, and you’re ready to be with someone who sees that, values it, and shows up consistently for it.

The women in my network are selective, empowered, and deeply relationship-minded. If that sounds like you, then trust me, you’re exactly who our elite male clients are hoping to meet.

So… Did You See Yourself in These 5 Signs?

If so, I’d love to learn more about you.

Joining my complimentary network doesn’t mean you’ll be matched right away, but it does mean you’ll be considered for real, relationship-minded men who are working with me 1:1 to find their ideal match.

These are men who are serious, emotionally available, and seeking a long-term partner.  These are men who value women with heart, depth, and a sense of self.  And yes, these are men who are hard to find on your own.

Ready to Be Considered?

I invite you to join Loveology 101 Complimentary Network for Women. Be considered for matches with elite men looking for meaningful relationships. Complete your confidential profile to get started.

You’re not too much. You’re not too late. And you’re not asking for too much.

You’re just waiting for the right matchmaker to connect you with the man who’s been looking for you, too.

Let’s make it happen.

Xo, 

Jule 

Your Matchmaker & Love Strategist 

Helping singles over 40 find real, lasting love.